A Mini Guide to Moving Like You Used To — Before the Rules, the Pressure, and the “Shoulds”

Remember when movement was fun?
Not something you had to do, track, or tick off a list…
…but something that made you laugh, sweat, twirl, feel alive?

🌟 Spinning in circles until you were dizzy
🌊 Swimming until your fingers wrinkled
🎶 Dancing like no one was watching (because no one was)

That joy is still in you.
And this week, we’re waking her up.

💬 Why You’ll Love This Mini Guide

As we hit midlife, movement often becomes clinical:
“Good for bone density.”
“Good for fat loss.”
“Good for blood sugar.”

Yes, all of that’s true.
But you know what’s missing?

❤️ Pleasure. Play. Freedom. Joy.

This guide is a love letter to your inner child and a call to reconnect with your body through movement that feels like living, not working out.

💃 3 Steps to Reclaim Your Joyful Body

STEP 1: Remember Her

Close your eyes. Think back to a time you moved for joy, not results.
Was it roller-skating? Swimming? Jumping on a bed?
Write it down. Feel it again.
Ask yourself: When did I stop giving myself permission to feel that way?

STEP 2: Move Like Nobody’s Watching

Pick a song from your childhood or teen years.
Play it. Loud.
And for just 3 minutes, dance. No rules. No mirrors. No judgement.
Just you, your body, and the music.

Do this every day for a week.
Start with 3 minutes. Add more if it feels good.

STEP 3: Create a Joyful Movement Menu

Write a list of movement that sparks fun, not “fitness.”

✅ Dance in the kitchen
✅ Walk barefoot in grass
✅ Do a silly YouTube aerobics video from the 80s
✅ Try a new class just because it looks fun (not effective)
✅ Move with a friend who makes you laugh

Circle your favourites. Then commit to doing 2 this week.

💗 This Is Your Permission Slip

To laugh.
To wobble.
To sweat and smile not because you “should,” but because it feels amazing.

Midlife doesn’t mean the end of joy.
It means coming home to it with wisdom, courage, and maybe a little 90s playlist.

Ready to Reclaim Your Joyful Body?

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